It is true that on the day an elephant died, there will be a dispaly of different knives. Those knives won't just be for displays but to cut portions out of the helpless animal. Who dares an elephant when alive?.
The collapse of Tiwa Savage and Tunji Balogun aka Tee Billz,s marriage has greatly generated heated arguments, advices and letters. Even those whose stories were not far from the Baloguns have joined in the letter writing and advice giving adventure.
One of those who carried knife to chair out of their unfortunate incidence is popular on-air personality called Ifedayo Olarinde aka Freeze. The fair skin media entrepreneur who abandoned his wife, Ope, last year with two kids and allegedly followed a Port Harcourt based super rich woman who is said to have already given birth to four kids has written a letter to the distrusted Tiwa to view his "displeasure" on the current brouhaha between her and Tee Billz.
Freeze with his ex-wife, Ope
Freeze wrote an open letter to Tiwa Savage following revelations she
made over the weekend in an interview about her marriage to Teebillz.
Here is the letter...
Dear Tiwa, I
have nothing but love for you, but after I watched all 45 mins of your
interview.... ..Tiwa, I know it hurts when a relationship breaks down,
and those accusations T Billz made were extremely hurtful, nonetheless, I
believe you could have employed caution when responding, since
according to you, he was unstable and suicidal.
law, if for instance, you walk in on your man in bed with another woman
and you shoot him on the spot, you could get a lighter sentence, if
your legal counsel argues provocation. On the flip side, if you walk out
of the scene to get a gun and then launch an attack, it's now
fact that you granted a 'pitch perfect' interview, with a flawless
visual background and superb audio quality, in my opinion looks a bit
you had denied all his accusations and asked to swear on ayelala or
amadioha or sango as against the lie detector test, since on no instance
has a polygraph ever been used in Nigeria, and if afterwards you had
requested for privacy, as you deal with such a sensitive issue, this
matter would have been laid to rest. How are you going to tell Nigerians
not to talk about issues you 'used your own hand' to make public? This
could only serve to further delay your healing.
though my prayer is for your issues to be resolved and for joy to
return to your home, the breakdown of a marriage is not the end of the
world, I have been through it and my world did not end. However, do you
realize that the interview you gave could lead to the end of TJ's world?
Who is now going to hire, work with, or have any business dealings with
an unstable, adulterous, fraudulent, cocaine sniffer who cannot manage
money and has his priorities misplaced? Whether you like it or not, that
is what the interview has delineated him to be. In furtherance to this,
if he was suicidal before, this interview is only going to make him
even more suicidal!
know you both love Jamil so in all this drama, lets be very careful to
shield him, as the Internet never forgets and his friends and classmates
will always have his father's tweets along with your interview as
points of reference.
But in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and of silver, but also of wood and of earth; and some to honour, and some to dishonour. 2 Timothy 2:20
Read: 2 Timothy 2:19-21
19 Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal, The Lord knoweth them that are his. And, Let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity.
20 But in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and of silver, but also of wood and of earth; and some to honour, and some to dishonour.
21 If a man therefore purge himself from these, he shall be a vessel unto honour, sanctified, and meet for the master's use, and prepared unto every good work.
Today’s memory verse speaks of the availability of vessels of different makes, designs, and qualities to a great person. The choice of what vessel to use for any particular purpose is dependent on the master’s preference and the suitability of each vessel to the assignment at hand. So also, the man that God will use for any assignment must be found suitable for Kingdom assignment. God is always in the business of searching for suitable resources that He can use to fulfil His purpose here on earth. Whenever He locates one, He proceeds with the preparation and training of the chosen for the assignment. Incidentally, the divine equipment usually employed for the preparation and training of the man that God use is the cross. Many Christians are not fulfilling their purpose in life and ministry because they have consistently refused the required training for their assignments, and because they are not found to be suitable yet, their commissioning remains pending. May the Lord wake you up to the reality of your situation today, so that you can take your rightful place in the programme of heaven in Jesus’ name.
The man that God will use becomes completely transformed by going through the preparation process of God. The relationship that follows guarantees that the person's mind, heart, will and life now belong to Jesus Christ alone, he becomes reoriented with God and God’s kingdom. He is convinced beyond any reasonable doubt that he or she was created to please God and would begin to pursue godly purposes with all determination. In the life of the man God uses, the words of 2 Corinthians 9:8 come to play;
“God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.”
Therefore, the man God uses is the person who has absolute trust, reliance, and faith in God. He relies on God as the source of all things; he is a man through whom God can do all things. He is fully aware of God’s agenda in the world, and he lives with a clear, God-given sense of direction toward fulfilling God’s purpose. The presence of God is with him always and he is always careful to keep his character and integrity in line with the Word of God.
The man God uses is able to bring incredible changes and blessings into the life of anyone that comes in contact with him, through him, people with broken spirit, unstable families, the poor, those with health challenges, the demon possessed and the disenfranchised, can all find peace and prosperity with God. This is the whole essence of Christianity, and all it requires is our total submission to the preparation and training process. May the Lord give you the grace to pay the price for greatness in Jesus’ name.
Father, give me the grace to depend totally on you and completely submit myself to your training in Jesus’ name.
BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: 1 Kings 14:1-15:32 and Proverbs 18:1-14